
Vista Domestic Violence Attorney
Domestic violence is a serious crime. In California, even a false allegation can get you arrested because to ensure all victims are protected, police generally assume the “victim” is telling the truth and take action against the “abuser.” They do this by nearly always arresting the person they believe to be the aggressor, even against the alleged victim’s wishes. Because these allegations frequently result in criminal charges, anyone accused of domestic violence in Vista or anywhere else in North San Diego County should always contact an experienced spousal abuse lawyer as soon as possible.
Domestic abuse occurs when one person harms someone they are involved in a romantic or sexual relationship with. The romantic or sexual involvement must be genuine and not involve financial gain, so a prostitute cannot be considered an intimate partner under the law. In other words, for someone to be the victim of this class of crimes, they must have suffered from the use of violence, threats of violence, stalking, or vandalism (even of shared property) by:
- A spouse (either husband or wife)
- The other parent of their child
- A person they were romantically cohabiting (living) with
- A person they were romantically or sexually intimate with
- A former spouse, cohabitant, or another person they were formerly intimate with
Are Same-Sex Partners Covered by Domestic Violence Laws?
While many people envision domestic violence as something a man does to a woman, it can also occur in same-sex relationships. Alternatively, in male/female relationships, the woman can be the abuser, and the man can be the victim. If you have been accused of domestic assault by someone you did not have a sexual or intimate relationship with, this may serve as a defense in this crime.
Do Domestic Violence Laws Cover Roommates?
While the law protects “cohabitants,” judges have interpreted this to only cover those living together in an intimate context, even if they have not had sexual intercourse. For this reason, it does not cover roommates —though those accused of violence against roommates can still be charged with assault or battery.
That being said, defining an intimate relationship isn’t always easy. If one person believes they went on dates with the person they live with and the other thinks they just went to dinner as roommates, this could complicate a case. Similarly, if two roommates hooked up only once while drunk a while ago, it would be debatable whether or not they could be considered “intimate partners.”
The Domestic Violence Arrest Process
Police always investigate reports of abuse between intimate partners, and, in most cases, you must let the police enter your residence for a well-check, as these instances are considered exigent circumstances. Officers then speak with the people involved in the dispute, as well as any witnesses, interviewing each person individually, ideally in a separate room. If police observe any serious injuries, blood splatters, damaged furniture, or other property, they may process the area like a crime scene, taking photos and collecting evidence. If any parties need medical attention, they may call an ambulance.


After investigating, the officers will write a report on the incident; then, they will almost always arrest the person they believe to be the aggressor. When both parties seem at fault, the police will generally arrest the person they believe is responsible for most of the violence. One thing that frequently surprises people is that police will put both parties into custody because they believe both people may be guilty and cannot determine who the aggressor was.
If the Victim Doesn’t Want to Press Charges, Will I be Released?
No. Unfortunately, San Diego prosecutors often press charges in domestic violence cases, even if the victim does not want the case to proceed. Sometimes, the DA still moves forward with the case even if the victim recants their statement. The District Attorney does not need to uncover other witnesses or evidence beyond what police officers recorded in their report during the arrest. Additionally, there do not need to be any substantial injuries or even any injuries at all.
Always speak with your lawyer as soon as you are accused of domestic violence —even if you know your partner won’t want to press charges. Do not speak to the victim on the phone, as this could violate your stay-away order and leave you facing even more severe consequences.
Domestic Violence Penal Codes in California
Domestic violence is what’s known as an “umbrella term,” meaning it covers an array of criminal offenses, all called by different names. Offenses that fall under this larger category include:
- Corporal injury to a spouse or inhabitant (Penal Code 273.5 (PC))
- Domestic battery (Penal Code 243(e)(1) (PC))
- Making criminal threats (Penal Code 422 (PC))
- Stalking (Penal Code 646.9 (PC))
- Aggravated trespassing (Penal Code 601 (PC))
- Violating restraining orders (Penal Code 273.6 (PC))
- Vandalism (Penal Code 594 (PC))
- Threatening phone calls (Penal Code 653m (PC))
- Damaging a phone line (Penal Code 591 (PC))
If children are present during the attack, you may also be charged with child abuse or child endangerment, even if no one touched the juveniles during the incident.
Corporal Injury to a Spouse or Cohabitant
Corporal injury to a spouse or cohabitant is one of the two most commonly filed domestic abuse crimes in San Diego County. This charge can be filed when someone injures their intimate partner, even if the injury is only minor. Acts that may fall under this offense include obvious violent behaviors such as kicking, punching, and slapping, but can also include things such as throwing an object at someone or restraining someone in a way that causes injury.
Corporal injury is either filed a misdemeanor, punishable by no more than one year in jail, or a felony, punishable by up to four years in prison. While attorneys are always critical to those accused of any domestic violence charge, this is particularly true when the charges are filed as a felony because the consequences are so serious.


Domestic Battery Charges
The other most commonly charged offense of this type is domestic battery, a misdemeanor crime that is less serious than corporal injury to a spouse or cohabitant. Domestic battery occurs when someone uses force or violence against their intimate partner. If someone was emotionally abusive and threatened to act violently, prosecutors may also file this charge. The victim does not need to be injured.
Making Criminal Threats
Many people accused of hurting or threatening their partner are also charged with making criminal threats. This crime occurs when someone threatens to commit a crime likely to result in significant bodily injury or death and causes the victim to fear for their safety. Criminal threats can be either a misdemeanor or felony. Misdemeanor criminal threats carry a maximum one-year jail sentence, whereas felonies are punishable by up to four years in prison and a strike being added to your record.
Stalking Charges
Many people facing these types of allegations are also accused of stalking, which can be filed when someone harasses or threatens another person until the victim fears for their safety or the safety of their family. Stalking can be a misdemeanor or felony, and as a felony, it is punishable by up to three years in prison.
Aggravated Trespassing
When someone takes stalking or criminal threats to another level and makes a criminal threat and then trespasses within 30 days into that person’s home or workplace with the intent to carry the threat out, they have committed aggravated trespass, punishable by up to three years in prison.
Restraining Order Violations
When someone violates a domestic violence restraining order to get close to or communicate with someone the court has forbidden them from contacting, they may be charged with violating a restraining order, a misdemeanor punishable by up to one year in jail. There are many defenses to violating a stay order, including doing so accidentally. If you have been accused of violating a restraining order in Vista, do not talk to the police until you have a domestic violence attorney present.
Vandalism and Domestic Violence
While it’s legal to destroy your own property when angry, damaging communal property or another person’s property is vandalism. San Diego prosecutors may file domestic violence charges if you damaged communal property, even if the victim suffered no physical harm. While these offenses are similar to other vandalism crimes, it’s worth noting that because they occur between domestic partners, there are mandatory penalties.
When the value of the damaged property is less than $400, the charge will be a misdemeanor; otherwise, it may be filed as a felony or misdemeanor. The minimum penalties for misdemeanor domestic violence vandalism charges include a 3-year probationary period, fines, community service, a year-long batterer’s class, and a restraining order. Additionally, those convicted must pay restitution for the damages resulting from their actions. As a felony, this offense is punishable by up to three years imprisonment.
To secure a conviction for this charge, the prosecution must prove that the victim was at least a partial property owner and that you intentionally damaged it. If your attorney can show you accidentally damaged your partner’s possessions or that the destroyed items were yours, you aren’t guilty of this offense.
Child Abuse or Endangerment
While not technically domestic violence because the victims are children and not intimate partners, child abuse and endangerment are regularly filed against those accused of violent acts against intimate partners. In child abuse cases where the defendant has a prior domestic battery or corporal injury charge, prosecutors often use this fact as evidence that the defendant has a violent nature and is, therefore, guilty.


Child abuse can result in a prison sentence of up to three years, whereas child endangerment is usually a misdemeanor punishable by up to six months in jail. When child endangerment places the child at risk of substantial bodily injury, it may be a felony or misdemeanor. As a felony, it can carry a sentence of up to six years in prison. Always work with a top domestic violence attorney in Vista if you have been accused of harming your children or those of others, such as a spouse or girlfriend/boyfriend.
Batterer Intervention Programs
In California, those convicted of domestic violence must go through a 52-week batterer intervention program. These year-long programs are designed to help offenders recognize their triggers and underlying psychological issues that may result in their abusive behaviors, as well as ways to rechannel their anger to avoid acting out violently. These domestic violence classes are different than anger management courses, which may also be required under the terms of someone’s court-ordered probation agreement.
The only way to avoid these classes is to have all charges dismissed or plead down to a charge that is not considered a domestic violence offense. Even then, you may be sentenced to a similar program. For example, someone convicted of child endangerment may be sentenced to a year-long parenting class.
Batterer intervention programs are part of a court-ordered probation sentence. Failure to complete your domestic violence classes is a probation violation, punishable by incarceration and additional fines. If you have a good reason for missing classes, the judge may excuse you from these requirements.
In San Diego, there are programs located throughout the county, including Vista, El Cajon, Downtown, National City, and more. Each company offering these programs charges its own fees, but typically, courses usually cost between $10 and $55 per session. Those suffering from extreme poverty may only need to pay $5 per class.
Can You be Deported After a Conviction for Domestic Violence?
Some people convicted of domestic violence may be ineligible to ever obtain citizenship, a green card, or even re-enter the country legally. A domestic violence offense need not necessarily be violent; immigration consequences can apply even in cases involving stalking and restraining order violations.
Domestic violence convictions carry optional deportation for those in the country legally and inadmissibility in the future; those here illegally face mandatory deportation and future inadmissibility without so much as a hearing. If you have been deemed inadmissible and are caught attempting to re-enter the country illegally or are caught being in the country illegally, you can be sentenced to 20 years in prison.
Anyone concerned about how a domestic violence charge might affect their immigration status should ensure their attorneys are familiar enough with the law to not accidentally agree to a plea bargain that still has problematic immigration consequences, such as those offenses considered to be charges of moral turpitude. Some of the most common misdemeanor criminal offenses used in these types of plea bargains that do not have immigration consequences include trespassing, false imprisonment, simple battery, simple assault, and misdemeanor vandalism.
About Restraining Orders in San Diego
Criminal protective orders, sometimes called a stay away or restraining order, are almost always a part of the domestic violence criminal process. Police typically issue an emergency stay-away order when they make an arrest, but this order only lasts 7 days. After that, it is up to the victim to file for a temporary Criminal Protective Order after that point. Sometimes, the court may even impose a criminal protective order against the victim’s wishes. If the victim does not appear to advocate against it at the arraignment, the court will automatically issue a restraining order on their behalf.
You cannot fight the temporary protective order, but this order only lasts 30 days. After that, you can challenge the longer-lasting stay-away order, commonly called a permanent restraining order, in a court hearing before it is issued.
How to Beat a Domestic Violence Charge
Prosecutors use numerous tactics to convince the court that the defendant is guilty, even if the alleged victim later recants their story. A defense lawyer must be familiar with these methods to develop a strategy to counter the charges effectively.
Questioning the Victim’s Original Story
In many of these cases, domestic violence victims recant or change their statements from what they told the police. The prosecution will often claim the victim revised their statement or testimony because of fear of the abuser or the consequences of a conviction.
Your attorney is responsible for finding reasons the original statements are not credible or corroborated by the facts. If the physical evidence doesn’t match the victim’s claims of injuries, the defense can argue the claim was made in haste or anger. The defense can often say that a disgruntled partner called the police to gain leverage in child custody or divorce proceedings. Prosecutors are aware of this and are receptive to evidence that the victim is using a criminal case to gain the upper hand in a family law proceeding. An investigation into the accuser may also reveal the bias or motive of the victim to fabricate an abuse claim.
At the same time that the prosecutor will typically play up the truth in the alleged victim’s story, they will also attempt to show that the defendant’s side of the story is 100% false. This process starts long before the DA even takes over a case and begins when the police first interview you to get your side of the story. Any inconsistency in your story can be used as evidence that you are lying.
It is rarely advisable to talk directly to the police, victim, or prosecutor about the case. A lawyer can explain your side and show extenuating circumstances without requiring you to make statements that can be used against you. In many cases, officers frame their questioning so that they are not required to provide a Miranda warning, which results in the suspect saying more than they would otherwise. With or without a Miranda warning, avoid talking to the police, who have many tactics to get suspects to confess.
If you try to contact a victim who has a restraining order against you, this can result in additional charges, even if you are just trying to apologize or make up. Even without such an order, it’s best to avoid speaking with the victim over the phone.
Showing You Are Not a Violent Person


The prosecution may try to prove that you are a violent person by using past violent crime convictions against you or introducing witnesses to testify that you have a bad temper. Your San Diego domestic violence attorney should counter this by blocking the introduction of evidence when appropriate and providing proof that you are a level-headed, non-violent person who would not hurt your partner.
Investigating the Victim
The prosecutor must provide the victim’s relevant criminal history. However, they have no obligation to independently investigate the character and credibility of the victim. Your lawyer must dig beyond the criminal record to see if the victim has a history of false accusations or violent acts that didn’t result in arrests. If the victim has a history of lying or violent behaviors, they can present this information to the prosecutor and, if necessary, a jury, to prove the victim isn’t as innocent as they claim.
Common Domestic Violence Defenses
There are many different defenses to these allegations. You and your lawyer must determine the right course of action for your case based on the specific applicable facts and laws.
Lack of Evidence
Anyone can accuse someone of beating them, but there is no case without proof, especially if you have evidence proving your side of the story, such as an alibi that places you somewhere else when the incident allegedly happened. Like anyone on trial, a domestic abuse suspect cannot be found guilty unless the prosecution can prove they committed the crime. In some cases, evidence is so thin the case will not even be brought to trial.
False Accusations
Like rape charges, domestic violence accusations can often come down to the victim making one claim while the suspect says something different, and this is sometimes because the alleged victim is lying. When it comes to cases involving spousal abuse, these false claims often are made to help the “victim” during a divorce. If the alleged victim has a proven history of making false accusations, this is one of the most effective defenses against domestic violence.
Self-Defense


Many times, both parties were violent, and if one person acted in self-defense, they are not guilty. When properly used, self-defense is a complete defense against these allegations.
Evidence that can back up a self-defense claim can include photographs and medical records showing your injuries from the incident or the fact that you were arrested even though you were the one who called the police.
The Activity was Consensual
Sometimes, people agree to violent acts for sexual or other reasons. If your lawyer can prove that your partner willingly consented to physical harm, this is an excellent defense. This defense can be a bit risky in many cases, as few juries will believe a victim “asked for it,” but if you have an agreement on video or a contract between the two of you, you may be able to invoke this defense successfully.
Getting the Charges Dropped or Reduced in Vista
In many cases, it is preferable to seek to have the charges dropped or negotiate a plea bargain rather than trying to fight the charges completely. As an experienced defense lawyer, Mr. Liss can often convince the prosecutor to file these charges as a misdemeanor rather than a felony.
In some cases, he may persuade the DA to drop the charges based on the available evidence. In other cases, he can have some charges dropped as part of a plea bargain to ensure you serve the minimum sentence possible.
Alternatively, Mr. Liss may also work with the San Diego District Attorney’s Office to ensure his clients can be sentenced to probation in exchange for pleading guilty to a domestic violence conviction.


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